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» 主题: Am I a bad girl?
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lily
Stranger 中国 注册日期: 2001-8-22 发帖数: 6 状态: 离线 |
Hello,everyone! I am Lily and I am in Shanghai working for a foreign company as an account. I have a personal problem which troubles me for several years. When I studied in Nanjing University in 80s, I had a boyfriend and we lived in together for two years. After graduation I came back to Shanghai and he stayed in Nanjing, but we kept seeing each other every month. I got married to another man in Shanghai five years ago and my boyfriend got married, too. My husband is a teacher in College and a very good man. We have a lovely girl and family life is great. What troubles me is that my boyfriend in Nanjing keeps coming to Shanghai very often and every time he comes, we go to bed together. I cannot refuse him. I simply can't resist his temptation. I love to be with him and I know it is no good for my family to keep this relationship. Recently I am telling myself not to meet him when he comes to Shanghai but every time he comes and calls me, I can't refuse to meet him. Can anyone tell if I am a terrible woman and, most important of all, a effective cure for my problem. |
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tom
Newbie 注册日期: 2001-5-12 发帖数: 87 状态: 离线 |
 Yes, I think you are a bad woman overrun by sex desire. Is it love? May be in some people's mind it is "love".But I think it is pure desire. One question: why don't you marry him?  gt;Experience is the best teacher >Tailors and writers must mind the fashion >Angry Men Make Themselves a Bed of Nettles >There are none so blind as those that will not see >There is no time like the present >A black plum is as s |
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happyboy
Newbie 注册日期: 2001-5-15 发帖数: 73 状态: 离线 |
No, you aren't a bad woman. Just another "Shanghai Baby". A wonderful Shanghai woman who knows what she wants! But I feel sorry for your husband. |
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cynic
Newbie 中国 注册日期: 2001-7-5 发帖数: 22 状态: 离线 |
Interesting story! My advice: If you think you love both of them, keep your relationship to yourself and never tell anyone else. You are a happy and lucky woman. Dogs never lie about love. Dogs never lie about love. |
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forgetmenot
Stranger 注册日期: 2001-7-2 发帖数: 4 状态: 离线 |
[V]marry him not means love him! lot of men in marriage do not love their wives,they love other young women in deed,but not marry them.I think it's the same case as lily's.  |
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yyuu
Newbie 注册日期: 2001-6-27 发帖数: 10 状态: 离线 |
you are a bitch! and your boyfriend is a adulterer!!go to bed with another woman's husband, meanwhile spout here, you are shameless! an effective cure is in your mind in deed, you just do not want to take that medicine -conscience. Edited by - yyuu 重新编辑於 2001/08/23 10:35:27 |
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andylu
Newbie 中国 注册日期: 2001-8-19 发帖数: 23 状态: 离线 |
Be calm, friend. Don't be so rude as to curse. Maybe Lily is just telling and doing what many other girls do. Lily, can you tell us what is really in your mind? What happened when you went back to Shanghai and later you got married with other people instead of you two? Do you love them both? or love one of them? |
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yyuu
Newbie 注册日期: 2001-6-27 发帖数: 10 状态: 离线 |
Maybe I was too absorbed in Lily’s story, and was angered by her craziness, thus I could not help cursing them.Supposing that you are Lily’s husband or wife of her boyfriend, what’s your feeling? No matter what you will do( perhaps you choose separation, or leaving without saying goodbye, or any other action ), I think you should get the feeling of ‘anger’ . Sometimes I think if I had experienced ultra-marriage love, I should not be so rude. Luckily enough, I live a happy life. |
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lily
Stranger 中国 注册日期: 2001-8-22 发帖数: 6 状态: 离线 |
此文由andylu发表。 Be calm, friend. Don't be so rude as to curse. Maybe Lily is just telling and doing what many other girls do. Lily, can you tell us what is really in your mind? What happened when you went back to Shanghai and later you got married with other people instead of you two? Do you love them both? or love one of them? Thank you very much for your understanding. Sometimes I hate myself and also think I am a very bad woman and curse myself. Yes we love each other. There was a breakup in our relationship when I came back to Shanghai and we also said goodbye to each other. But he can't forget me and I can't refuse him. I have been doing very hard to try stopping this relationship. I just don't want to hurt him. Do any of you have similar experience and how you work out? Thank you again, Andylu! Edited by - lily 重新编辑於 2001/08/23 15:47:19 |
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sharping
Newbie 注册日期: 2001-5-24 发帖数: 30 状态: 离线 |
i could understand what you feel and what you are doing. but i do not agree to your behavior. you have to choose between two men. and your boyfriend has to choose between two woman. you can only have one man in your life. as an adult, you have to shoulder responsibilities. by the way, i doubt about the fact whether your boyfriend really love you. a man would never try to hurt a woman he really loves, he would shoulder all the pains by himself. but what he did has hurt you, though currently, you might feel happy about his behavior. |
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